Maven if you figure the death dates are not valid and go by birth dates, Frances Boyer does make sense as a mother
I do remember the New Amsterdam vs direct from France via England issue with the Hardin / Hardwyn's - there were more than one family with that name unfortunately. I TEND to find the Huguenots of MD / VA to be from France via England at the early dates & migrations being later but it can't be discounted.
Anyway, aside from the unlikely middle name of Wesley, I'm kind of liking this proposal:
Frances Marie Hardewyn
Frances Boyer, immigrant
Birth: 1639 - London, London, England
Parents: John Boyer (Bowyer)
Married: 1674 - Swindon, Wiltshire, England
Husband: John Wesley Hardin b 1625 Rouen, Seine-Maritime, Haute-Normandie, France. Arrived 1 671 Maryland, USA
Son: Martin John Hardin (Hardewyn) 1650-1706
Links
http://www.uk.mundia.com/gb/Person/42866188/19881049788