and related lines are a mess. I just removed the connection of a Frances Pitman (unknown) married to another Frances Pitman (unknown) and both being wives of Thomas Pitman. Both were mothers of a son named Thomas Pitman. The lines have Thomas Pitmans on top of Thomas Pitmans and to make it worse, most of them had multiples wives.
I'm afraid to try to fix it all myself for fear of making a worse mess of it. I have Googled a bunch of sites and don't know what is correct. Some sites have Thomas b. 1614 having son Thomas born 1655 but then others sites work in an additional generation where Thomas b. 1614 has a son Thomas b. 1634 who has son Thomas b. 1655, but it seems multiple generations have duplicate sons named Thomas that need merging.
The information I found to try to help sort it out is as follows:
1. Thomas b. 1614
https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Pittman-1252
Married 3 times:
Husband of Frances MD (Unknown) Pitman — married 1635 [location unknown]
Husband of Martha (Unknown) Pittman — married 4 Oct 1666 (to Oct 1672) in Surry County, VA
Husband of Lydia (Gray) Pittman — married 1672 in Surry County, VA
https://freepages.rootsweb.com/~morganandrelatedfamilies/genealogy/...
shows the same wives as above but adds that Martha's maiden name was Gwaltney
2. Thomas born before 1661 (usually listed as 1655)
https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Pittman-318
Shows married once to Elizabeth Lancaster BUT in the notes it indicates multiple wives:
Marriages
Based on Tithables, Thomas had at least 3 children (William, Edward, and Thomas Jr are listed in the Tithables before 1702)[4] before he married Mary Holleman Chambers in 1702. Tithables records show that Thomas Jr was living with Richard Holleman (his step-grandfather) in 1702, the year that Thomas Sr married Mary, Richard's daughter-in-law.[5]
Thomas married Mary Chambers (possibly Hollyman/Holleman) in 1702. They had several children; she died before 1720.[6]
NOTE: The above notes indicate Mary Chambers and Mary Hollyman (by whatever variation) were the same person; whereas some sites break them out as different women.
After Mary died, Thomas Pitman married Elizabeth Lancaster, daughter of Robert Lancaster; the marriage was recorded in 1720.[7] They were thought to be Charity's great-grand parents. [8]
Thomas named 14 children, 2 boys still minors, when his will was written in 1728. Of these, at least 3 (Thomas, William, and Edward, possibly deceased young since he appears in the Tithables only once in 1699[9]) were from an unknown mother; 7 others (including Ambrose) were likely from Mary; and Elizabeth was the mother of the youngest four.
https://freepages.rootsweb.com/~morganandrelatedfamilies/genealogy/...
Lists wives as Elizabeth Lancaster and Mary Hallowan (seen elsewhere as Halloway and other variations)
https://gw.geneanet.org/monartque?lang=en&n=pittman&oc=0&am...
Shows him born 1650 and married to Elizabeth Lancaster, Mary Chambers and another unnamed wife
3. Thomas born c. 1684 is also shown as married to Elizabeth Lancaster
https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Pittman-317
Nowhere did I find information on the Thomas supposedly born 1634 as shown here:
Lt. Thomas Pitman, II
Even the notes on that profile don't seem to be for that Thomas but are identical to the notes for Thomas born c. 1650-1655, or before 1661.
I had worked on these lines back in August and don't recall them being this mixed up at that time but I see that some additional merges were made on some of the profiles in September. I don't know if that's when/how things got confused or what. Most of what I had done was just adding notes to their profiles. I certainly don't recall leaving things in the mess they are now.
My mind is just totally boggled trying to sort the Thomases and their wives out. I was going to attempt to merge the duplicates but then realized there may be an unnecessary generation in the mix and that I better get some help.
Thanks in advance for helping get these connections sorted.