Wow, that brought the dictators out of the woodwork, didn't it!
Shmuel Aharon Kam:
1. As Knut Stangenberg points out, your assertion that "we DID have a discussion" is not really supportable. Someone posted (on the Wiki) a "fait accompli"; this discussion followed, but:
a) Contrary to your statement, nowhere was "my" suggestion "turned down" in this discussion.
b) The obvious point: who does that sort of turning down, anyway?
c) No obvious consensus was reached in this discussion
d) Real, concrete problems with the "overuse the suffix" plan were identified (not just by me)
e) No one actively supported the "overuse the suffix" plan -- the best you can say is that in some people's opinion it was the least bad option
f) No one at all supported your brand-new claim that "the display name is problematic", presumably because every existing possible scheme is problematic.
g) Even if true (which I dispute), your cock-eye scheme of abusing the suffix field is problematic for precisely the same sort of reasons, plus it "pollutes" the underlying database. That last is not opinion, it's objective fact: Oliver Wendell Holmes, Jr. is a complete name, not "Oliver Wendell Holmes, Jr. Associate Justice", which is what you would have if you stuck his title ("Associate Justice") into the suffix, which leads to the question: was he a "Junior Associate Justice" or perhaps he was "Justice Oliver Wendell Holmes, Junior Associate"?. [That example may be a bit contrived, but the problem is real].
All that said, you have now gone to contradict yourself: you claim that this ill-conceived convention was "not imposed by a cliche" (probably you meant "clique"), and then go on to bluster and threaten locking things (thereby preventing discussion) and make wild assertions about How The Curator Team(tm) Will Do Things. [I know for a fact that The Curator Team will NOT, actually, do things the way you claim, because I've discussed it with some and they don't do it that way, at least on MY historical profiles -- by which I mean historical profiles that I created -- and you appear to have missed Erica's post on page 18 at #180 in this thread].
As Ben M Angel has pointed out, the fundamental solution has to be technical, whether it is to address whatever real or imagined issues you may have with the "Display Name" field (e.g. to provide an option to display both the entered display name AND the name fields, and/or rename "display name" to something like "formal style" -- which is closer to what it does, anyway).
As to some of your other pronouncements:
1. It is customary in wikis to note topics of controversy. This doesn't, despite your bald claim, weaken the entry, but rather it makes the thing more inclusive, thus more likely to be accepted. In this particular case, my amendment simply offered an alternative which preserved the concept of keeping titles out of the core name fields -- on that there is no dispute.
2. If you, or anyone else, has an issue with my, or anyone else's, stating what is a fact (i.e. that your "abuse the suffix" scheme is controversial), the appropriate thing for you, or anyone else, to do is to *expand* the issue, possibly even split the topic off into a new page. . If you don't like using the display name, go ahead and add material explaining why this solution will cause the sky to fall, or whatever you want to claim.
3. While you pay lip service to the notion that this is a collaborative site, you obviously fail to understand that you cannot really mandate anything. Your only option is to PERSUADE. Which means you have to explain why you think using field X is better than field Y. So given that you now KNOW that your plan is controversial, casually stamping on dissent will NOT WORK.
4. You make the rather bizarrely arrogant claim that I didn't "supply any real alternative". That strikes me as arrogant and bizarre because neither did you "supply any real alternative". I didn't invent the problems with your scheme, I just pointed them out AND then offered an alternative, which you don't like (for some unstated reasons).
5. I know exactly HOW you deleted my changes to that page, and would respectfully point out that it's irrelevant: you deleted them. And you didn't even have the courtesy to let me know that you'd deleted them, although you claim you "consulted with others". How would you feel if I deleted your efforts without so much as a "by the way, here's why I'm deleting..."
I really do appreciate that you'd like there to be One True Way, all in the name of preserving the Collective Effort. But it won't happen. So give up trying to dictate, and start trying to convince.
Oh, and please don't play the "argumentum ad populum" game (where you assert that your opinion is the one that "most people" or "the community" share). It's a fallacy: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Argumentum_ad_populum. You need to justify your position, not just state it.